cuteI recently wrote a blog post on the bizarre subject of people feeling embarrassed for being attracted to wheelchair-users, as if it’s akin to finding a child or corpse attractive. I have been countlessly taken aback by backhanded compliments since my spinal cord injury stemming from this. Eg: “So and so found you hot, BUT he was too embarrassed to say so…to anybody.”

*Sigh* Having a SCI can be way too complicated sometimes. Read the entirety of my thoughts on this subject on Easystand – “Embarrassed for Being Attracted to a Disabled Person?”

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  1. David Barker March 31, 2016 at 8:03 pm Reply

    I use a wheelchair 24/7. I tend to be attracted mainly to spina bifida and polio females. Am I, in your opinion, a ‘dev’?

  2. Tiff March 31, 2016 at 8:50 pm Reply

    Not if you’re a wheelchair-user. Just my opinion 🙂 I think it’s more of a comfort thing, not a “I want to bone her for her emaciated legs OMG” thing.


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